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Seaside Heights Hotel Owners Fight Prom Party Crackdown

Local hoteliers challenge ordinance restricting after-prom parties, arguing it hurts business in a town that depends on young visitors for summer revenue.

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Seaside Heights Hotel Owners Fight Prom Party Crackdown

The fluorescent lights of the appellate courtroom in Trenton couldn’t have felt more different from the neon-soaked boardwalk of Seaside Heights, but the stakes were just as high for the small business owners who made the trip north Tuesday morning.

A group of hotel and motel operators from the Jersey Shore town sat quietly as judges heard their challenge to a local ordinance designed to crack down on after-prom parties — the kind of overnight celebrations that have become a rite of passage for high school seniors across the tri-state area, and a crucial source of spring revenue for shore businesses.

The legal battle represents more than just a dispute over teenage revelry. It’s about the economic lifeline that connects Central Jersey’s suburban high schools to the shore communities that depend on young visitors to survive the shoulder seasons between Memorial Day and Labor Day.

“These kids have been coming down here for decades,” said Maria Santos, whose family has owned the Driftwood Motel on Boulevard for fifteen years. “Their parents came here for prom. Some of their grandparents did too. Now the town wants to shut that down completely.”

The ordinance in question, passed last spring by the Seaside Heights Borough Council, requires hotels and motels to verify that guests under 25 have written parental consent for overnight stays during prom season, roughly April through June. Violators face fines up to $2,000 per incident, and repeat offenders could lose their lodging licenses.

Council members defended the measure as a public safety necessity, pointing to incidents over the past several years involving underage drinking, property damage, and what Police Chief Tommy Boyd described as “situations that put both our visitors and residents at risk.”

But the hotel owners argue the law is both unenforceable and discriminatory, creating an impossible burden for small businesses that can’t afford to hire security guards to check IDs and parental permission slips around the clock.

“How are we supposed to verify every piece of paper some teenager hands us?” asked James Chen, whose Ocean View Inn has hosted prom groups since 1998. “Are we supposed to call parents in the middle of the night? Are we supposed to become police officers?”

The challenge also raises questions about age discrimination and due process, according to the hotel owners’ attorney, who argued that the ordinance essentially criminalizes being young in Seaside Heights.

For anyone who’s spent time in Central Jersey during prom season, the ritual is familiar: groups of friends pile into cars and head east on Route 35, formal wear packed alongside beach towels and coolers, ready to extend their special night into a weekend celebration by the ocean.

The tradition has economic roots that run deep. Unlike the massive summer crowds that descend on shore towns in July and August, prom visitors represent a more predictable, bookable market during the quieter spring months when many seasonal businesses are just getting back on their feet.

“It’s not just the hotel rooms,” explained Santos. “These kids eat at our restaurants, they go to the arcade, they buy stuff at the souvenir shops. They’re spending their graduation money here instead of somewhere else.”

Data from the Seaside Heights Business Association suggests prom-related visits generate approximately $800,000 in local revenue each spring — a significant figure for a town of fewer than 3,000 year-round residents.

The legal challenge has also drawn attention from other shore communities grappling with similar issues. From Wildwood to Point Pleasant Beach, local officials are watching to see whether Seaside Heights’ approach might serve as a model for their own prom-related concerns.

“Every town down here deals with this,” said Robert Martinez, who serves on Brick Township’s tourism committee and owns rental properties near the beach. “But you can’t just shut down a whole tradition because of a few bad actors.”

The hotel owners’ case gained momentum last fall when the New Jersey Hotel and Motel Association filed an amicus brief supporting their position, arguing that the ordinance sets a dangerous precedent for municipal overreach in the hospitality industry.

“If Seaside Heights can require parental permission slips for 24-year-olds, what’s to stop other towns from imposing their own arbitrary restrictions on legal adults?” the association’s brief asked.

Defenders of the ordinance counter that local governments have broad authority to regulate businesses within their borders, especially when public safety is at stake. They point to similar age-verification requirements for activities like renting cars or booking hotel rooms in other resort destinations.

The timing of the legal challenge reflects broader tensions about how shore communities balance their economic dependence on tourism with residents’ quality of life concerns. It’s a dynamic playing out across the region, from the ongoing debates about short-term rentals to disputes over beach access and parking.

For the hotel owners waiting for the appellate court’s decision, the stakes extend beyond this summer’s prom season. A ruling upholding Seaside Heights’ ordinance could encourage other municipalities to adopt similar measures, potentially reshaping the economics of shore tourism.

“This isn’t just about Seaside,” Chen said after Tuesday’s hearing. “This is about whether small businesses still have a say in how they serve their customers, or whether every town council gets to decide who’s welcome and who isn’t.”

The court is expected to rule within 90 days, well before this year’s prom season begins in earnest. Whatever the outcome, it’s likely to influence how other shore communities approach the delicate balance between celebrating young people’s milestones and managing the challenges that come with them.

For now, the hotel owners are preparing for spring bookings while hoping the judges understand what’s at stake — not just for their businesses, but for a tradition that connects generations of New Jersey families to the shore they’ve always called their own.